Did you see any action, did you make any friends

Wasn’t there an old song that went like that?   She asked the unbelievable ‘Let’s have a 3 some David. I will have one with you’.  I declined the offer because I could feel something was up. And the person she offered to do it with…. Well…I just couldn’t do it so I didn’t even entertain that offer seriously. Given the fact our last one, she did not like in the least bit, I was surprised, no, stunned, that she would offer to do this.  So this got me thinking: either she already had another one and now she is ok with the notion to do it again with me, or she was planing to have one and she just wanted to have the practice with me as the guinea pig.  Why am I even mentioning this? I just like observing behavior, that’s all. I know all this may sound a bit strange to some readers, but when you have known someone and you are a perceptive person, you can pick up subtle hints, looks, or body language, and people tell you all kinds of things through non-verbal clues. It is interesting to observe. Of course I have been wrong before, but I’m just saying.  You know… it’s like when you enter a bar that you have been going to for the past 10 years and you know everything and everyone. But then one day you walk in and suddenly there is one little thing out of place that just seems a bit off.  You pick up that little hint and you exit the bar before the mobsters barge in guns a-blazing, 2 seconds later.

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Spiedini Romana

She went to his room and helped take of his pants and underpants, before she started sucking his cock. Then he turned her over and entered her from behind before finally she started riding him, her favorite position.  He spanked her butt, lightly. She always liked clean cut business men. Afterwards she walked around the shiny lights of Midtown and Times Square, admiring the store front displays and the well dressed crowds, a bit pensive. Headed down to the subway, took one more quick look uptown at the ‘great white way’ of Broadway one last time, got on her train, then took the transfer at 14th street. She thought about her ex-bf, they used to hang out in that area. Checked her cell phone, just a text from a colleague. Took a shower before lying down and thought about him again while laying there in the dark and wondering if, on that evening, he was also banging someone.  Turns out he was making an old recipe ‘Spiedini Romana’ which he loved to eat during high school at his aunts house. Messy to make, but yummy, lol

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New year new goals

2016 is over and for the new year I just have a few simple goals.  Work a bit more on my health as far as eating healthier and exercising more. May take up martial arts again. Another resolution is to become a more courageous trader. Too conservative in the past couple of years, so this year I will put on bigger positions with tighter exit stops. Will double up.  On a more personal note, we lost a few people in the past couple of years, either personal relatives or old neighbors (one was only a year older than me, yikes).  So in 2016 I decided to get closer once again to family (working quite well I might add) so I will continue to do so in the coming year. It feels great and its the right thing to do.

As for this blog? Well the stories will continue. There will not be any new stories, as I have no new SBs or ‘friends’ or anything of the sort.  The blogs will be more of a new interpretation of older stories now that I am more removed from them.  There is more to be learned, when we look back to historical events a long time after they are done. They take on a new light, don’t they? Everything somehow becomes a bit less urgent or dramatic.  There may also be some old stories from the past which I never talked about yet.  And at some point, this whole blog will become history and will vanish in the way it appeared. At that time the process that started with my first ever blog entry will have been accomplished.

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‘I only want a one time thing’

There was a communication once, from a prospective sugar baby, that went exactly like this.  We never met actually, but she said that’s what she was looking for. Nothing ongoing, just meet once and that’s it.  I wonder what is the motivation behind a request like that. And she obviously said the same thing to probably many more others.  Did she just have a one time cash crunch that she wanted to meet? Or perhaps this was something that was on her bucket list? Strange…

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Hey Dave just keeping up

After I came back from TX, I tried my version of the personal ad here, and got some pretty good catches. I had found that I started to gravitate toward women older than 30.  So I had a few dates, not much came out of it though. I found that they would text me the following day ‘Hey Dave, I am just keeping up with you when can you meet up next time?’ and I would just ignore the text. Or I would say ‘Yes definitely, let’s get together’ and then not follow through for the simple reason that I was bored out of my mind.  I even turned down that nice Romanian girl Patricia (had sex once) who was wishing me happy birthday. I forget why I didn’t see her after the first few weeks. Maybe I just lost interest. Like Serena used to tell me, ‘David you are so jaded’… I think I had more important things to worry about such as career matters, stock market in the dumps and things like that.  It’s funny how some sugar babies wonder ‘Oh this SD never called me back even though we hit it off on our first date’.  Well, duh, we have jobs you know, wives, kids, maybe sick elderly parents etc.  So our next date with a random SB is at the 5th priority.  Still, I could use a bit excitement. As luck would have it, this blond 31 year old graduate business school student from Indiana contacted me saying she would be in town for a conference, and wanted to meet the famous author of ‘Sugar Daddy Diary’ in person. Good enough, so we went to this nice Greek restaurant in Midtown across from her hotel.  Fun ensued..but I knew this could not continue, after all she was from out of town.  Nice meeting though and very smart woman with great personality. I like brains in someone.  Maybe that’s why I really liked that other girl, a cheerleader, called ‘Christa’. Someone with career ambitions, and good education. I found myself planning every detail of every date just to make sure it all went as planned. I was like 23 all over again. That was short lived though as well, thanks to my stupid attitude of ‘This was just perfect it lasted 2 months, had sex once or twice it was nice, I am going to quit while I am ahead’. Stupid move which I regret to this day. But my point is that I didn’t have too much interest in sugar at that time. I had just finished my awesome book, also trying to get re-established in the NY finance career scene so I had my hands full

Until one day when I got a friend invite on Facebook from this 19 year old girl from Bed-Stuy (a hood in Brooklyn, New York). My fist impression was ‘who is this now? She seems awful young, does she live with mom and dad?’. And that was the very beginning of the most tumultuous affair of my life…One that took me from curiosity to love to despair to…just contempt. I hate feeling that way about someone but…

‘For heat of cold, for cold of heat, I dye’ I always loved the tradition of cryptic ambiguity…

And, good God, I saw the first ‘Touch of Grey’ in the top of my hair. Ugh, father time, and a few thousand hours of trading stocks will do that to a man

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Lesson in oral sex

Here is a precious one, and a unique experience which only happened to me once.  I got a note from someone once saying ‘Hi, I am going to give you a lesson in oral sex. Men usually suck at it so I want to give you a lesson’. It was one of those ‘wtf’ moments.  I had no idea who this was, we never met ever. Not before this and not since!  But anyway, I played along so we kept emailing back and forth so I finally agreed to meet and receive my ‘lesson’ in performing oral sex on a woman.  I got to the appointed place and she was there, she undressed and then invited me to undress as well.  I declined.  The agreement was no sex whatsoever, so I figured why undress and get all comfy and excited when there will be no release?  I decided to make this more like a clinical appointment with a twist.  ‘Show me what you got’ she said.  So I leaned over and parted her lips uncovering her rosebud. ‘Good, you do that…’ she said. Of course, moron, who do think I am! Anyways I continued my performance and pretty soon she was starting to moan.  I then inserted one finger, followed by a second one to which she commented ‘This is like fucking’.  Ok…..I kept the pace steady and could feel her rotating her hips while groaning and eventually she stood up, came, and squirted on the carpet!  ‘I give you a nine out of ten’. I was flattered, given the fact that I never met this person before in my life. But was able to please her nevertheless, by following the cues her body (and her pussy) were giving me. We shook hands and I left. That’s it.  This was a very flattering experience, on the same level as: ‘David, you give oral sex as good or better than a  lesbian’ an old comment given to me by a bisexual woman ages ago.  And I have to thank this 26 year old beauty who, when I was younger, very patiently taught me whatever I know about giving head to a girl.

But now this experience got me thinking that I should offer lessons as well. So I am making the following offers to readers of this blog or my book ‘Sugar Daddy Diary’ on Amazon, located in the New York tri-state area:

Offer 1

I can give you a lesson in how to give oral sex to a man, no charge, and no intercourse involved.  You need it, trust me. At least 40% of the women out there are clueless on this.

Offer 2

I can give you a lesson on how to give a hand job. You won’t believe how many women (I would easily say 70%) give too rough, or to gentle hand jobs focusing on the wrong area of the male organs.

Offer 3

I can perform oral sex on you, no reciprocation needed, and you grade my skills

Offer 4

Any combination of the above, but now, if we decided we like each other intercourse will happen.  As an extra enticement, I will throw in a few stock tips for 2017, courtesy of my public equities research department. And if you bought my book I will sign a copy for you

What do you think? Send me an email, I am waiting



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