Sugar Daddy Diary

I do remember one thing:  Her first and last name were distinctive and at first I thought they were nicknames.  Then I checked out her pics on facebook and they revealed someone who had a whimsical sense of humour. We both shared a love for Law and Order so I hit up a conversation with her about that (thank you Chris Meloni) which led us to agree on a meeting just to say hello.  The meeting was supposed to be at PJ Clarke’s the venerable scotch and burger bar in New York City. Only this one was not in the familiar location on 3rd avenue but more uptown near Lincoln Center. Anyway I arrived 5 minutes late and she was already standing there.  At a first glance she immediately had a eerie similarity to someone I seriously dated back in the 1990′s. I kid you not! I walked quickly up to her since I was avoiding the oncoming traffic (jaywalking, it’s New York, sue me ok?) and immediately said hello to her and we entered the pub got to our seats, placed our order with the friendly waiter and started talking about the blog, the book, her school located near by, her 2nd year studies etc.  She was a bit quiet and only nibbled at her turkey sandwich, which was huge, and, as it turned out, stone frozen! So that’s why she only had one bite and then left it alone.  I was wondering..

In the meantme the waiter was trying to get me drunk apparently and kept serving me one beer after the other.  At least I had the opportunity to check out her amazing behind (in blue jeans) when she excused herself to go to the ladies room. I knew she was watching me with the corner of her eye because her manner of walking revealed that she was aware of me checking her out and following her with my eyeballs as she walked away.  Later on we went along for a romantic walk and sat near the fountain where she tried to kis me and then I tried kissing her but it was too crowded with people at that time so I refrained.  No matter: we had sex in a public bathroom 8 months later, lol.  I asked her if she would like to go out again and she replied that she would. She then also asked ‘Can we see others?’ hmm ok I responded.  Filed away that information.  I liked her jeans, her casual style which reminded me the girls a went out with while in college, and her hair. As a matter of fact I leaned over and smelled her hair while we were sitting at the fountain. Sensual..

Little did I know this was the start of a tumultous affair..

Funny side note: in my drunken stupor, I tried holding her hand while we were walking to the subway, to which she reacted as expected:  She pulled away as she didnt want her classmates seeing her

Tumultous indeed and I wouldn’t change a single bit. Well, maybe a couple of things but you get my point