I have searched far and wide during my travels and adventures. Why is it so difficult to find a woman who can do this the right way ? I only met two in my whole life and I have found that most can’t even be taught. Something about timing, momentum etc
Yeah tell me about it…
I’ve always wondered why some women are so talented and skilled. While other women just suck at sex.
I’ve had 3 lovers that really knocked my socks off. As in multiple male orgasms in a single session. All had a few select traits in common. Excellent dirty talk. Adventurous, kinky, and wiliness to please
Other women were mostly above average in my estimation. 2 were total dead fish
most men I talk with say they can’t tell if a woman is sexually pleasing and compatible until they have sex
I used to be more naive and tried “relationship first”, this always made me curve the sex’s merits with a particular woman… which never worked
These days I press for sex, I judge the sex against my grading scale and only B+ makes the cut.
harsh I know but it’s just not worth my time to hope a woman gets a clue how to please me. All my excellent lovers figured it out in a few minutes… so I judge by that standard.
I think that every man has a nuanced variation on the same basic technique. As a woman, it is hard to determine exactly HOW a man wants it done. More pressure here, less there, a sublet twisting motion at the end… It seems like hand jobs are as varied as fingerprints. I’ve learned to politely ask to be taught. In return I usually offer to demonstrate my own preferences. 😉
You have to be in tune with your partner and aware of his bodies responses. It becomes easier with time obviously