She wanted to be worshipped

Here’s a good one. So, I knew this nice looking lady (typical college look like a sorority girl at Rice University). Very shirt term affair, but at that time I liked those anyway.  We went out a few times and she would always show up dressed as college girl with jeans and a nice shirt or sweater. Then I has lost ouch for a couple of months until a time when I emailed her and she responded. We went for dinner at Arturo’s and when I saw her I was like ‘wow, she is looking very different, very attractive and very corporate’. She was talking about her new job in marketing and was so excited about it. She mentioned that she had canceled her profile at a sugar site, and that she now did her own shopping and her own hair and nails without relying on sugar daddies. I was impressed because even though she was only 2 months older than the last time I saw her, she seemed like years away from the sorority girl I had first met.  I kept smiling through dinner because I was happy for her. At the same time I was wondering what she was doing there with me. Clearly she had moved on to a different, better phase of her life. ‘Thanks for reaching out’. And then she revealed something very insightful. She said that because she is pretty, most guys don’t give her the time of day. They see the outside and then stereotype her, and basically walk away. Or just want her for a one night stand. I guess she liked the attention that older men gave her, with their extra confidence and more relaxed type of attitude. For example, I listened to her patiently and gave her my opinion about her work etc and I think she appreciated that. I didn’t just want to get in her pants. AND: she was such a narcissist though, it seemed, looking at her self in the mirror all the time and then turning around and smiling. The sugar baby wanted to be worshipped, and I did for a few evenings. She wasn’t very communicative so I didn’t pursue it further, heck, we had out fun and a few nice dates. What else could one want…

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One Response to She wanted to be worshipped

  1. Java says:

    I recently had one like this. A 9 by any measure. We went out as friends and then since I didn’t live in her city I lapsed contact.

    Then I was flying out her way so I came through her city. The first night it was like WOW she was dressed to the hilt and showed off her stunning body. But no dice moving to intimacy.

    I asked a friend about her dress up and no go. She said that women dress for other women. So in effect she wanted to look sexy but that didn’t necessarily mean she was into a man.

    With these types you have to deny the adulation they crave.
    You have to almost insult them to pierce their narcissistic bubble.

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