Hey Dave just keeping up

After I came back from TX, I tried my version of the personal ad here, and got some pretty good catches. I had found that I started to gravitate toward women older than 30.  So I had a few dates, not much came out of it though. I found that they would text me the following day ‘Hey Dave, I am just keeping up with you when can you meet up next time?’ and I would just ignore the text. Or I would say ‘Yes definitely, let’s get together’ and then not follow through for the simple reason that I was bored out of my mind.  I even turned down that nice Romanian girl Patricia (had sex once) who was wishing me happy birthday. I forget why I didn’t see her after the first few weeks. Maybe I just lost interest. Like Serena used to tell me, ‘David you are so jaded’… I think I had more important things to worry about such as career matters, stock market in the dumps and things like that.  It’s funny how some sugar babies wonder ‘Oh this SD never called me back even though we hit it off on our first date’.  Well, duh, we have jobs you know, wives, kids, maybe sick elderly parents etc.  So our next date with a random SB is at the 5th priority.  Still, I could use a bit excitement. As luck would have it, this blond 31 year old graduate business school student from Indiana contacted me saying she would be in town for a conference, and wanted to meet the famous author of ‘Sugar Daddy Diary’ in person. Good enough, so we went to this nice Greek restaurant in Midtown across from her hotel.  Fun ensued..but I knew this could not continue, after all she was from out of town.  Nice meeting though and very smart woman with great personality. I like brains in someone.  Maybe that’s why I really liked that other girl, a cheerleader, called ‘Christa’. Someone with career ambitions, and good education. I found myself planning every detail of every date just to make sure it all went as planned. I was like 23 all over again. That was short lived though as well, thanks to my stupid attitude of ‘This was just perfect it lasted 2 months, had sex once or twice it was nice, I am going to quit while I am ahead’. Stupid move which I regret to this day. But my point is that I didn’t have too much interest in sugar at that time. I had just finished my awesome book, also trying to get re-established in the NY finance career scene so I had my hands full

Until one day when I got a friend invite on Facebook from this 19 year old girl from Bed-Stuy (a hood in Brooklyn, New York). My fist impression was ‘who is this now? She seems awful young, does she live with mom and dad?’. And that was the very beginning of the most tumultuous affair of my life…One that took me from curiosity to love to despair to…just contempt. I hate feeling that way about someone but…

‘For heat of cold, for cold of heat, I dye’ I always loved the tradition of cryptic ambiguity…

And, good God, I saw the first ‘Touch of Grey’ in the top of my hair. Ugh, father time, and a few thousand hours of trading stocks will do that to a man

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