As I mention in my book there was one point in time where I would become so inundated with sugar emails and texts that I wouldn’t know what to do anymore. I would respond to emails and then I would also send out emails of my own and by the end of the day or the end of the week I would have so many potential dates that I wouldn’t know what to do. We all have constraints on time as well as budgets so I couldn’t go out and see one different woman for each day of the week. For a while there I did try, but it quickly became so draining so I curtailed my activities. I would typically text one lady and set up, tentatively, a date after work. We would go on that date and then start planning for future ones. But then someone else would text or email that was more attractive or more interesting and I wold get distracted and go on a date with her instead. And so on and so forth. And then the previous lady I went with would try to contact me and I would say ‘Sorry I can’t meet after all’.
So now I am curious: how would a SB react to a text like this? Once the arrangement has barely started and even sex was had, but then she gets dropped a week later for another. I am sure its common because its all NSA after all, and there is a large pool of daddies and babies so the turn over is quite high both in men as well as women
I would be interested in hearing similar experiences from SDs and SBs.
Happy New Year’s !