I have to say I have been a good boy for some considerable amount of time now. No 3-somes, no crazy dates etc etc. I don’t know if I will ever do this again, but remind me: if I go out with a younger woman again she must be one of those who likes older men anyway. I think that there are 3 types of younger women:
1. Those who think its just simply disgusting or morally wrong to date anyone who is 5 years older than they are. They think ‘Ew, you are almost as old as my uncle’. Those types would go into sugar only for the money or gifts, or perhaps the prospect of getting a carer break. I would avoid those types like the plague. Why? Someone might say ‘C’mon Dave, you surely don’t expect to find love in this sugar thing of ours do you?’. Of course not (even though it happened once with Alex). But, I went into sugar to have some nice and worthwhile experiences, and also to have fun. If I go out with someone who is repulsed by me, and is only with me because I took her to the fanciest restaurant she has ever been at, this will show in her body language. She will feel uncomfortable being with a 40+ aged man. And this will spill over in the quality (or lack of) of our date. She won’t be having a good time, neither will I. Why would I ever want to put myself in a situation like that?
2. Then there is the type of younger woman that simply prefers older men. They don’t generally like men (or boys) of their own age group for various reasons and would love the opportunity to be shown a good time by an older attractive man. This is what I used to do when I was younger. As a man in his 20’s I used to go out with older 30+ women, almost exclusively, simply because I felt more attracted and more comfortable with them.
So this is the type of gal I want. Someone who likes dating older men, naturally, sugar or no sugar. I can have the best experiences with someone like that because she will want to be there, in my company, so everything will feel natural. In bed it will be fun (hopefully) as well and whatever she lacks in experience she will make up in energy. So all is good here.
3. The third type is the lady who is indifferent to age groups. She just looks at people on their own merits. She may not seek older men specifically and perhaps she never dated one, but she would be open to it under the right set of circumstances, and she would find it intriguing. I feel that I can hang out with someone like that as well
I haven’t done any detailed statistical analysis, but I wonder what is the percentage of young women, say in the ages of 20 to 28, that fall into the 2nd category that I mentioned?
Does anyone out there know?