Do all sugar baby arrangements and relationships include sex? Not all, but most do. Think about it seriously for a minute. If you are dating someone in a traditional sense, sex will eventually happen if the two individuals involved develop an attraction for each other. I don’t see how sugar relationships are that much different after all. Two people meet (granted it’s a bit unconventional). They decide to spend one date per week, or so, together. Is it unreasonable to expect sex to happen? Not on a first or second date, but in a reasonable span of time it would happen. After all, why would I spend any time with someone that found me unattractive or someone who I have no chemistry with? Why should I ‘rent’ someone to sit down and have dinner with me? Am i that lonely and desperate? Am I that old as to say ‘I don’t care, I will pay a 30 year old woman to have drinks with me for an hour and nothing else’. I can’t see how sex would not happen. I got an email from a young lady asking me if sex is mandatory in a sugar relationship. She heard that many SDs expect sex on a first date and she didn’t feel comfortable with that. I told her she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t feel comfortable doing. In her case, she did not need the money as her school and rent are paid for already. So she had the luxury of waiting and finding someone she likes, rather than jumping in bed with the first guy who waves an allowance in front of her. But even this instance verifies what I am saying: any relationship between a man and a woman, sugar arrangement or not, will lead to sex. Of course, I have heard of women just getting money out of guys simply for showing up. To each his own. If you can pull it off, then go ahead. It’s just not a situation I would want to be involved with. If I am attracted to someone I would want things to progress in this relationship, all the way to intimacy. Otherwise, what am I getting myself into? And why should I ever be involved in a platonic friendship? I already have friendships, and I choose to keep my friendships separate from my intimate life
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Blogger, Author, and Sugar Daddy on the down low, David Montrose shares his tips and tricks on navigating the Sugar Daddy lifestyle.
He dated and had mutually beneficial arrangements with attractive women of all ages and walks of life: Attorneys, college students, single moms, air stewardesses, and aspiring models.He blogs and writes about his experiences and likes to share his stories of a 'mature and generous gentleman'. His book 'Sugar Daddy Diary' is available on Amazon and the Kindle
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