Over time I have met some interesting SB’s including some who were pregnant or new mothers. I declined both.
One (or two, I think, I am forgetting now) were actually 3 months pregnant and we met for a drink, tea, not alcohol obviously. She was telling me she had another SD, until recently, who was 52. He wanted her to move in with him and get serious etc. She declined and she told him ‘Hey you are old you have lived your life, let me live mine’. So when I met her she had gotten pregnant by her boyfriend from the Bronx (wow!) and was looking for a new SD to show her some good time. I decided not to meet anymore after our initial get together. I have only slept with 2 pregnant women my entire life, 3 if you count that one stripper who was 1 month pregnant , when I was 19. In all cases I felt a bit squeamish and self conscious and was definitely holding back, because I didn’t want to do anything that would end up hurting the baby. I fully realize that sex by itself dosn’t hurt it, but still..it was on my mind.
Then there was another case where we were talking and having a great time, online or via cell phone. Then she dropped a bomb after days of talking ‘oh I have a 4 month old baby’. I told her I would not be comfortable doing anything. She asked why not, and I just replied that it wouldn’t feel right and her body would be still just recovering from everything, plus breastfeeding etc. Too much to handle for my simple mind I guess.