My old old friend from the lower east side who also happens to be bisexual told me once that: ’True bisexual or lesbian women wouldn’t do a 3 some with you David. That would be too weird for them’. She told me that many years ago but I still don’t understand it. So now this has become my new challenge or unfulfilled fantasy. I have done all the other ones I ever wanted. But this one, with true lesbians or bi’s remains unfulfilled. Which means that I shall not rest until my quest is satisfied, even if it means I will be a 80 year old trying this with two 65 year old bisexual women, lol
What is your definition of a true lesbian?
In my experience, generally speaking, people’s sexuality can be divided in three categories. First there are those who are 100% straight or gay and can’t imagine ever doing anything with a person of the ‘wrong’ sex. In the second group are the bi-curious. They mostly keep to their preferred sex but have at some point fantasised about a bisexual encounter. When opportunity of making the fantasy a reality presents itself they could become the most eager participants…or feel totally awkward and quit right in the middle. It’s seldom something you do that makes them change their mind, it’s really all about their own self confidence and sexuality. And then there is a group that identifies themselves as bisexuals. They are more or less equally attracted to both sexes, albeit sometimes in different ways. In this group the matter of threesomes often comes down to how comfortable one is with multitasking. Personally I can’t have a threesome with a girl I haven’t slept a lot with before. If I’m dating a guy and he wants to invite another girl into the bed, I need to have her for myself a couple times, before I can share her (and my hubby). I can only build trust and rapport with one person at a time. Others think emotional ties makes threesomes more difficult instead of easier and prefer to sleep with relative strangers.
Thanks L’enfant, that was very good analysis. And of course it makes a lot of sense for you to try another woman alone first and then as part of a 3 some. I just think that may take too much organization, planning time etc. Plus what happens if I eventually get excluded from the action? That wouldn’t be cool! I figured that by bringing 3 strangers together, as long as they were open minded for a one time adventure it could be fun. Hasn’t always worked ut that way though. So next time I will attempt to get 2 bisexuals who are at least familiar with each other, and who want to do a 3rd man