I was asked what was my type. Or what is the ‘perfect’ sugar baby profile. A stereotype would be a tall blond with big breasts, I suppose. Movies have us conditioned to think that way. But my preference, really, is any woman. What I mean by that is that any person, depending who they are and how me meet is attractive. Blond, black hair, Asian, Nubian princess, Spanish, it really doesn’t matter. Everyone will carry their own little quirks but as long as they are intelligent, attractive, and know how to carry themselves, then I like them. Even if they are not blonds. Their behavior, the combination of sensual but also intelligent , which is what any man would want, is what makes an SB great. Now here is a question for you: if an SB is only mildly attracted to the SD, would she change her personality slightly for a few hours to match what she thinks the SD wants? And, more importantly, what if she is wrong, and she puts on a girl-jock face, but the SD actually likes slow and mellow girls. I like real folks with a sufficient measure of class, who can hold a conversation. No acts, no bull, just the reality, the good the bad and the not so ugly.
Did I acted? Yes… Did he acted ? Only before…. Did I enjoy it? I said I acted…. Did he enjoy it? The neighbours found out the level…. But what matters is that we both left smilling. Because ALWAYS people remember how you make them feel. Does he know that I acted? I think he has too big of an ego to think about that. Would he care to find out I acted before? He did too. If nothing else he appreciates fair play….
To answer the question if the chemical reaction does not occur, well there is not chemistry. So it can not be faked at a elemental level. What we poor humans can fake is attitude, words and such. But when mental chemistry meets sensual chemistry there is music baby! With harmony, rithm and fireworks.
So long live the Oscars and its hard working actors! And for goodness sake, the fireworks because we need them more than once a year, lol!
Jade I didn’t realize you were such a great actress!
Let’s put it this way, I did not want to know that either. A teacher I never liked, called survival, puts me later in a lot of situations I have to pass through in a positive way. Sarcasm included.
Other than that I am my old true self. Boringly genuine…
I understand your appreciation and need for honesty on the part of the SB but .. after however many months pass and the relationship ends, why would it matter if she had shown her real self to you or not? I cannot see how that matters at all. Playing up certain parts of yourself and toning down other areas can help in acknowledging the reality that this is a transitory, NSA lifestyle. Helps to create boundaries from your real life, I think. What good comes from knowing and experiencing “the bad” (as you put it) in a sugar relationship? SBs should always put their best face forward for a SD – I’m sure you’ve mentioned this somewhere in your blog.
Jane there are arguments for and against for this: The against is that since this is suppose to be a fun filled lifestyle we of course want to see the good aspects of one’s personality, not the drama.
One the other hand, for me personally, since I am a closet anthropologist, I like seeing (within reason of course) the full spectrum of someone’s personality. Just the curious George in me I guess. And luckily I have had the chance to see that on a couple of memorable occassions.